Sunday, February 20, 2011

How to Nudge Others to Act “Right”


Unconditional love is a swell idea yet admit it. Aren’t there times you’d like to change other’s behavior? Get them to act right, like you. Or perhaps you’d like to drop a bad habit. Then learn how to “nudge.”


That’s a situational prompt that sways people to change.

For example, the traditional approach to getting drivers to reduce speed are those portable signs stationed at the side fo the street, showing how fast you are driving.

This is a shame or fear-based method. Instead, evoke pride or humor – or make it easier to do the right thing. In places in the UK, those signs don’t just tell drivers their speed. They smile at cars under the limit, and frown at cars over the limit.

Make the Right Option More Pleasurable Than the Other One


To encourage people to get exercise by taking the stairs instead of the elevator, one inventive group made the stairs sunnier and another made it more fun (piano stairs experiment) to walk than stand on the elevator.


Appeal to Our Better Nature


To motivate more people to wash their hands in the restroom two signs were


added, one for women and a more blunt one for men.


Instead of telling motorists to stop acting bad with “Don’t Litter” signs the state of Texas had much greater success by appealing to Texans’ pride, with signage saying “Don’t mess with Texas.”


Make it Easier to Do the Right Thing


If you worked for an organization that offered automatic payroll deduction for savings you’d be much more likely to save if the system was one where you had to opt-out than how they usually are set up – you must opt in to save. So discovered the authors of Nudge.


What nudge will you try to improve behavior – yours or others? See links to this post at http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2009/10/18/how-to-nudge-others-to-act-“right”/


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I Knew What You Meant When You Touched Me


Even when blindfolded, when touched just fleetingly we often recognize the emotion behind it. Even when touched by a stranger. Those touched in the study could identify the emotion (from eight, ranging from disgust to sympathy) more often than could happen by chance. Yet they were touched just five seconds.


More surprising to me, is that we are more likely to guess the right emotion that’s being expressed by someone’s touch than we can by hearing their voice or seeing their facial expression.


These three findings may startle you too:


• Men tended to avoid touching the face “and then only to express


anger or disgust at women and sympathy for other men.


Women touched faces frequently to express anger, sadness and disgust for both (genders) “and to convey fear and happiness to men.”


We have a deep hunger human contact. Touch is the most direct, visceral path of contact with one another.


Yet Americans are among the most touch-adverse of all cultures, except with our closest family and friends.


In fact, increasingly schools have formal a Hands Off policy. “Even high-fiving and pats on the back have been outlawed” so we can protect youth from violence. The lesson, learned at an early age, is that adults would rather protect them from a problem (bullying and other violence) than help them with an opportunity (closeness and friendship). It’s easier to manage.


I can’t help but wonder if this cultural phobia is connected to the rise in loneliness. This is worth closer studyas loneliness may be as dangerous to one’s health as smoking.


Even smiling keeps us better connected with each other. In fact, just from looking at a yearbook photo, one can predict with some accuracy whether a person will divorce later in life,” claims Matthew Hertenstein, Director of the Touch and Emotion Lab at DePauw University.


But let’s end on an up note.


“Men soothe their loneliness with computers, women do it with pets,” says the co-author of Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection, John Cacioppo. In addition to his loneliness-relieving “make friends” tips why not literally get in touch more often every day?


Mind you, I still get itchy just thinking about popular Leo Buscaglia’s well-intended notion that we should greet everyone with a bear hug, including strangers. (“You can’t wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug.“) Hugging everyone one meets negates the notion of touch having special meaning.


Yet why not hug your friends – and those to whom you are instinctively drawn? Shake hands with a smile when greeting colleagues.


As my Dad says, you seldom know if this time will be the last time you see that person.


Let’s stay in touch. (See links to this post here http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2009/08/15/i-knew-what-you-meant-when-you-touched-me/


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Saturday, February 5, 2011

Making Your Town Feel More Like a Community


Out driving you spot a pothole or tree branch in the road. What if you could use your phone to photograph it, with the location noted via GPS, then type a quick note re the problem and forward both via an application on your phone that enables your Twitter account to route it to the right agency? That makes being a good citizen easy and worthwhile. San Jose’s launching this service.


FixMyStreet offers another option. It lets people report, view and discuss problems based on mapping mash-ups.


A silver lining in the current, wrenching city government budget cuts is that politicans are desperate for ways to save money. Thus some are more open to using such citizen-involving technology to increase efficiency and involve citizens.


In Vancouver citizens can get an email alert to remind them to put their garbage out. In Seattle you can sign up for government RSS feeds and get information sent directly to your phone or mobile device. Several departments, including fire, police and transportation provide Twitter feeds too.


EveryBlock relies on location-based data to inform citizens about crimes, restaurant inspections and new permits, all mixed in with news and information provided by bloggers and volunteer journalists.


Does your business serve a local market? Do you care about your town or neighborhood? Want to stand out and serve? If your town government doesn’t step up to the plate you could launch a simple town-centered social media site using free tools:


NingTwitter and Posterous. Encourage local groups to form on the site for their civic (Rotary) or special interest (dog parks) group or project, departmental program or citizen protest. Other group topics might range from block-level news exchanges to anticrime block watches to volunteer sign-ups for civic events. Use other free tools like Zoomerang and SurveyMonkey to survey citizens on issues. Bill Schrier suggests more tools.


Libraries have become helpful places for less tech-savvy citizens to learn how to use these online tools.


Rather than look at a government Web site with menus and channels, citizens should enter the public sector through a map that visually shows everything from transit and crime information to locations for social services or election information. “People care about place,” notes FortiusOne CTO Andrew Turner. They don’t care about agencies or programs. One of their app maps for Washington, D.C. maps provides information for locating crime-infested neighborhoods and crisis response information. Another remarkable geospatial service, Virtual Alabama, provided integrated public safety, emergency management solution, born in the wake of Katrina.


Melbourne and San Jose are using wikis to make it easier for citizens to become involved in city planning.


Philadelphia’s new CIO, Allan Frank “sees the city’s 311 hotline as a transformational tool that will allow the city to move from functioning as a ‘service request operation’ that responds to incoming complaints and queries, toward a more proactive work-order management operation that anticipates customer service needs in a timelier fashion.”


To make your town’s information and operations more understandable, citizen responsive and efficient several companies are going geospatial. That means they are mashing maps and government data together. They are doing this by creating applications with free and open APIs. That means application programming interfaces.


Imagine the value of your town getting a custom template of any of these applications.



If your town government doesn’t step up to the plate you could launch a simple town-centered social media site using free tools: Ning, Twitter and Posterous. Encourage local groups to form on the site for their civic (Rotary) or special interest (dog parks) group or project, departmental program or citizen protest. Other group topics might range from block-level news exchanges to anticrime block watches to volunteer sign-ups for civic events. Use free tools like Zoomerang and SurveyMonkey to survey citizens on issues. Bill Schrier suggests more tools.


What ways could your cash-crunched town use online and mobile technology to reduce costs, become more efficient or offer you more value or make it easier for you to hear about city events or volunteer for a commission? For more fresh ideas take a look at the Learning Pool and also see the local government’s equivalent of the Grammy awards for citizen-serving uses of the web.


See links to this post at http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2009/09/20/making-your-town-feel-more-like-a-community/


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Elevate Your Value and Visibility by Jointly Offering a Speed Coaching Event

Job hunting is dispiriting – often lonely and isolating.


That’s why it was so comforting for job seekers to be in a room full of knowledgeable people who were ready to meet with them, one-on-one, to answer their specific questions.


From job hunt web sites to career counseling coaches could personalize their advice to each person’s need. Hundreds of unemployed people flocked to this free speed-coaching event in New York. My colleague, transitionist coach Terrence Seamon was one of many coaches who volunteered to sit in “twenty minute sessions, to review their job search campaign strategies as well as their resumes, making sure that they are accomplishments-focused.” The event was the co-created service of The New York Library, Vault and volunteer coaches.


In this bad economy what top-of-mind topic most concerns your kind of client?


Recruit a cadre of non-competing and credible experts to coach them in a fast-paced, speed coaching event where participants get hundreds of dollars worth of the specific advice they most seek – and coaches demonstrate their expertise to “pull” prospects towards hiring them. More than a free for all, “here’s my card” networking event people actually get to meet the individuals they’d most like to know at that time.


You, too, could leverage your value with a custom speed coaching event that serves a hot need or avid interest felt by your kind of clients. Here’s a quick checklist of jumpstart your first popular, speed coaching event:


• What other credible, complementary (non-competing) experts and organizations serve your “mutual market?”


• What preoccupies your clients?


• When would it be easiest for them to meet?


• What is a convenient and attractive meeting location for them?


• What if you created a helpful meeting momento – an eBook of three tips from each coach plus their bio and s brief description of all partnering organizations, with links to all resources cited in the eBook?


• How long should your event be? Some are as short as two hours and as long as a day. One-on-one coaching sessions in different events range from five-minutes to 20-minutes. Collectively choose the length that works best for your kind of attendee and speed coaching theme.


• Consider combining 20-minutes “expert roundtable” sessions for five to eight attendees to ask an expert questions – concurrent with the one-on-one speed coaching sessions.


Put the coaching sessions on one side of a ballroom or other large meeting place and the roundtables on the other.


• Place large signs behind each coach with their name and/or topic and on roundtables with the table topic.


The more partnering coaches and organizations you involve the lower the per-partner cost and the higher the benefit to them for participating – and the higher the number of people you can reach and serve.


Here is one kind of speed coaching event I co-designed with the astute head of the S.F. chapter of Savor the SuccessAyesha Mathews-Wadhwa. See links to this post at http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2009/09/29/elevate-your-value-and-visibility-by-jointly-offering-a-speed-coaching-event/


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Why Are Companies Ignoring Me – and Many People Like Me?


Does most advertising irritate you? Do you sometimes find that companies aren’t creating products for people like you? David Wolf thinks he knows why. For most of us, many (but not all) companies are out of sync with our worldview and self-image. At least for the majority of Americans, those who are 40 or older.


Wolf’s insights may interest you as the gap between older and younger people is widening.


• “Following childhood in the first half of life, we devote considerable attention to conforming our (“persona”, public) mask to what we believe will gain us the most fortuitous outcomes in our relations with our peers and others.”


• “Marketing has dominated by an ethos steeped in the narcissistic, materialistic values of the youthful self. Sex has been the armature around which the threads of most


marketing messages have been wound.”


• As we enter midlife, we become “more introspective, individuated, automomous.”


• Despite what some say, “People begin examining their lives less in terms of ‘Me’ and more in terms of ‘We.’” What gives my life meaning and what do i really want to do and be now?


• “Men tend to peel back layers of the persona to get more in touch with the feminine aspects of their personality. Women do the same thing, revealing the inner masculine of their real personality.”


• Yet most marketing remains “saturated with narcissistic and materialistic values” in part because people in advertising tend to be younger.


Useable Insight: To attract customers in the fastest growing market, appeal to their quest for meaning, service and/or authentic connection with others.


Some ways to start are to attend Mary Furlong’s Boomer Venture Summit, read David Cravit’s The New Old: How the Boomers Are Changing Everything . . . Again and Chuck Nyren’s Advertising to Baby Boomers and David Weigelt’Dot Boom - and visit Civic VenturesRetirement RevisedPreRetirement Life and International Mature Marketing Network.


As Carl Bard noted,  ”Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” Follow Kare at @KareAnderson


See links to this post at http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2009/10/25/why-are-companies-ignoring-me-and-many-people-like-me/

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How to Get People to Do the “Right” Thing

sway1What swayed more people to get out and vote for Obama? The same method that could motivate more people to buy from you. This approach is already nudging more:


Hikers to stay on marked trails.


• Hotel guests to use fewer towels.


Homeowners to reduce their energy useage.

(By giving you these examples I was using the method to sway you into thinking this must be a helpful method if it is being used in such diverse ways.)voterturnout-1

To spur more supporters to vote, the Obama campaign brought behavioral scientists on board to craft the message that was repeated in the final days: “A record turnout is expected.” They were evoking social proof.


Simply put, social proof means we are more likely to do what we think many others are doing.  Robert Cialdini described this effect in his popular book Influence as have others including Cass Sunstein (now working for Obama) and Richard Thaler in Nudge.


DMWToutdoorFINLcar.inddSimilarly an anti-littering campaign is wildly successful because it evoked our collective pride, with a slogan, “Don’t Mess with Texas.”


The effect of social proof is strongest in times of uncertainty (individuals are unsure and/or the situation is ambiguous) or similarity (we are most likely to follow people who are like us).


You see variations of the social proof effect every day:


• You choose the busy restaurant rather than the near empty one. You’re attracted to the crowded booths at the fair or tradeshow.


• After a murder/suicide is heavily reported, head-on car collisions and airplane crashes immediately go up.


• Fewer people now smoke in the U.S. as it became uncool to do so except in clusters where it’s still popular.


• For twenty minutes a day, kids who were afraid of dogs were set in front of a boy playing happily with a dog. After only four days, 67 percent of them climbed in a playpen with a dog and played with him. Shy kids can be helped too.


• If several people around you are overweight you are more likely to gain pounds.


• Bartenders sometimes “salt” the tip jar to get patrons to drop in money.


• Desperate women invade the men’s restroom at a Springsteen concert – after the first one or two bravely entered.


Brain imaging shows that when we think we’re out of step with our peers, the part of our brain that registers pain shifts into overdrive according to Cialdini. The herd instinct is strong.


twoguysandagirlSocial proof happens when one business attracts more customer because , unlike competitors, it displays testimonials.  When you see this woman looking at one of the two men, you presume he is more attractive and important than the other man, simply because of where she is looking. So display your product near non-competing and popular products or other objects.


Using social proof in small, even inexpensive ways has a huge effect. For example, Positive Energy, a firm where Cialdini is the chief scientist, is evoking social proof to get homeowners to voluntarily reduce their use of energy. Along with their utility bill they get a note either praising them, “with a row of smiley faces (You’ve used 58 percent less electricity than your neighbors this month!) or damning them with none (You used 39 per cent more electricity than your neighbors in the past 12 months, and it cost you $741 extra).”


That caused a 2 percent decrease in energy useage when it was tried in Sacramento with just 35,000 homes. That’s the same as taking 700 homes off the grid. Next social proof move? Reducing water consumption.


Such neighborly or peer pressure – especially with consequences - is a potent way to change behavior as stickK is demonstrating.


Conformity, competition – even shame are powerful motivators when social proof is evoked. An Oregon county’s public campaign to get homeowners to weatherize their homes at little cost got little response, for example. Yet when churches, citizen groups and Girl Scouts were recruited for a door-to-door drive, 85% of the county enrolled. (What credible partners can you involve in a social proof-based campaign?)


If you want people to buy from you, provide as many ways and places (web site, brochure, conversation, articles, etc.) for them to hear or read about those who already have. This kind of social proof evokes the power of Previous Precedent. The more your customers or the customers’ situations or reasons for buying remind prospective buyers of themselves and their situation the stronger their impulse to buy. Parents of Girl Scouts, for example were most struck by the need to weatherize their homes.


What worthy organization can benefit from aligning with your business to evoke social proof?


That’s how firefighters in Toluma got a badly-needed but expensive piece of equipment, a deluge gun, without asking their cash-strapped city council for a single dime. Business was slow all over their town. The firefighters were getting nowhere when they asked for donations from business owners experiencing a weak economy.


They approached the manager of the locally-owned MyPizzaria for a donation. Instead the manager devised a way to evoke social proof to attract donations – for their mutual benefit. “Here’s what I can do. We can pick a Wednesday, say four weeks from today to declare as “Save a Local Life. Eat Firefighting Pizza at MyPizzeria” day. It is usually a slow night. I clear $500 or so. On that day, after we sell $500 worth, every dollar after that I’ll split 80/20 with you – your cause gets 80%. So if you inspire enough people to buy a pizza on that day, you can raise more money than you just asked me for.”


The firefighters loved the challenge – and had down time to jump into it. They had banners, signs and announcements printed for free by the local copy shop with a bright red “donated by” credit line.  They asked local supermarkets and gas stations to display them. After the first signs appeared, the local association of realtors decided this was a popular campaign (social proof). As avid, adept networkers, the Realtors offered to help spread the word.


At commute times two fire engines, plastered with a banners, had waving firefighters and realtors on the busiest street. Then the growing army of volunteers visited offices complexes, even those with signs that read “No soliciting.” (Who’s going to kick out fire fighters?)


Now more backers visited apartment complexes, video rental outlets and schools. They put flyers and signs everywhere. Once people heard about their community cause, handing out flyers was like giving away candy. The local radio station, newspaper and several bloggers covered the unfolding story.


When the Wednesday finally came around, the place was packed with a lively crowd. Some were served at tables in the parking lot, thus attracting passersby (another sign of social proof at work). They made enough money to get the Deluge Gun. Most importantly it was fun and a win for all participants. Done right, social proof-based campaigns can attract a crowd so more gets done with less work on everyone’s part.


Plus such social proof-based partnering enables all parties to use their best talents and resources. Acting together for their mutual benefit generates deeper, more diverse friendships. Because they experienced the leveraging power of partnering participants are more likely to want to work together again. See links to this post at http://howwepartner.com/2009/06/how-to-get-people-to-do-the-“right”-thing/

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Tasty Ways to Attract More Customers

Pull more people into your local business by profitably partnering in ways that inspire more buying yet often reduce your promotional overhead. Sound good? Here are some success stories of how others have done it.

Involve More Partners to Multiply the Potential Customers You Reach

b-b-signget-introducedThe California Association of Bed & Breakfast Inns promotes “Small Town Escapes” citing their members’ places to stay and also sites to visit (Harley’s Farm, Duarte’s Tavern and unnamed others) yet does not leverage the mention of those other sites by linking to them after inviting the owners of those other places to visit to partner in this themed promotion, touting it to their constituency.lighthousees

Hint: Co-create a reason for people to visit - a Situational Sell – rather than simply promoting your place or product. What other things might they buy or do or simply see when your would-be customers hear about your co-created offering?


With each new, relevant partner who serves your “mutual market” your visibility and credibility are likely to go up while your overhead costs often goes down.


Alternatively, a regional cycling club, bike stores, motels and B & Bs could join forces with to offer three and five day cyclingpackages, co-creating the suggested route, times, places to dine and stay offered by businesses able to cater to the special foods and time needs of avid cyclists.


Take photos and videos of places on the picturesque route and encourage those who take it to submit their own video and photos to the co-created web site. Add a twitter name, Who knows? Some makers of portable GPS and heart monitoringdevices might be national sponsors. Then pitch the story to Sunset magazine, the AAA publication editor and other outdoor-centered publications. Perhaps your scenic area has great places to hike. Show them where with online and wall maps at your business, plus suggest what to do before and after.



Tempt Them to Drop In


One Fall, J.C. Penney handed out coupons for a free cup of coffee at 7-Eleven stores at the same time 7-Eleven stores featured displays at the checkout stands with a tear pad coupon good for $10 off at J.C. Penney stores. To make it more equitable in such a collaboration the partners could have had displays (on the window, wall or counter) to tout the free coupon for those who buy from them, then give them away only when handing the purchased product to the customer.


Hint: This profitable partnership could also work for local, independent business owners:


• Family-friendly restaurant and a kids clothing store


ymcs• Health food storesports equipment outlet and the YWCA or YMCA


• Medical clinic and yoga studio


• Plant nursery and garden maintenance firm

• Candy store or gift shop and florist


Painless Way to Visibly Help Customers Help Others


When a local disaster or other crisis or community need happens that will matter to your kind of customers be ready to jump in and help like Winn-Dixie did with the local Salvation Army. Here’s how. Even as many Floridians were fleeing their homes to avoid Hurricane Frances years back, their “neighbors” in Florida and Georgia found a small way to support them, just as they did last month after Hurricane Charley and tropical storm Bonnie hit.


spare-changWhen people visited a Winn-Dixie grocery store they could support storm relief by “even-it-up” at the checkout counter. That is, they can have the cashier round up their food bill to the next dollar, with the extra change going to the local Salvation Army chapter for relief efforts. Winn-Dixie also created a program that enables customers to vote for the charity they want to support – each time turning a non-profit into a partner that will tout that support to their fans.


Hint: What if you invited our customers and employees to periodically vote for their favorite charity to get money from your even-it-up program. They could vote by writing the name of their favorite charity on a card at the checkout counter and slip it into the nearby Vote Box. Each voting period you have a news hook when you announce the winner.


You also gain a happy non-profit partner that will share the good news with their backers plus, now that you know many of your customers like that cause, you might discuss with them other ways to partner to generate more visibility and value for each other.



chicka-filProvide the Reward That Pulls Them In


Around Charleston last Thanksgiving when the South Carolina Highway Patrol pulled you over for a traffic violation you’d get bad news and good news. You may get a ticket but if you were wearing a seat belt then you might get rewarded with a free chicken sandwich vouchers from Chick-Fil-A. That is unless you were driving while drunk.


Co-promoting that popular program might have made more people buckle up and it did generate priceless, positive media coverage. In Vermont, home of Ben & Jerry’s, drivers got ice cream certificates.


Hints:


What if, for a limited time, those who passed their driver’s test at the DMV got a voucher for a:


• Celebratory desert at a nearby restaurant when they buy something else?


• Free car wash after the driver pays for the first one?


• First aid kit for car trunk from the local hardware store, free with a minimum $20 purchase

• Gift packet of coupons from all the above partners?home-safety

What if, for a limited time, city firefighters, local hardware stores and Realtors joined forces to co-create and distribute Making My Home Safer tip sheets (in person and online) covering everything from the proper placement of smoke alarms to removing back fire-catching shrubs. Firefighters could park their fire trucks in popular shopping lots to hand them out. Realtors could share them at the many community events they attend and the hardware stores could post them at their entrances.


The nudge? Those citizens that follow the tips can contact the fire department to have their home checked by firefighters and other trained community volunteers and get a coupon for $15 off a lunch at participating restaurants when they bring a friend to dine.


What local government agency could you partner with to reward citizens when they walk in the door of your business, coupon in hand?


plantAs a local government agency, what businesses might want to offer coupon through you – especially for taking the sting out of paying a fee.


For example, homeowners paying for permits might perk up when the planner gives them a coupon for a free plant from a nursery or a smoke alarm from the hardware store.



Get Introduced to Each Other’s Biggest Spending Customers

To help other local business owners, Detroit’s grocery chain Hiller’s offered one-time coupons for customers who spent over $100 in one visit. Those coupons can be used for special offers at selected delis, restaurants and sweet shops.hillers

Hillers got media coverage for this first-ever offer, built community goodwill and gained visibility among prospective customers as all partner touted this offer at their business.


Hint: You could be the ringleader for a partnership in your community, recruiting non-competing business owners who serve your kind of customers, offering one-time coupons to all customers who spent a minimum amount in one visit at your business.


Customers visit your partnering businesses to redeem the coupons and your partners reciprocate with, offering a same-value coupon to their best customers who spend the same amount with them, redeemable at your place.


Motels sometimes offer guests those often stained, laminated 8 x 12 cards listing nearby restaurants that deliver pizza, Chinese food or other fast food.


Hint: Instead what if a motel, a B & B or city-run community center partnered with nearby restaurants to offer samples to guests as they register, with a small menu card attached to take to their room that might motivate them to then call and ask for a meal to be delivered. Then the motel can give guests a freebie as it warms up the guest to buy that meal.

Other kinds of local businesses could adopt a similar partnership.

Hair salons, veterinarians and others who serve people who may have to wait at least momentarily, could give small snacks from their partnering food business. The paper plate holding that snack could have the printed offer, redeemable at the partnering food business. That food business reciprocates with a comparably-valued special offer card to their clients – say a certain amount off the cost of the first visit. berkeleycollegeave



Become the Convenient Choice. Get Closer.

On several blocks in Berkeley hungry shoppers find specialty shops selling produce, cheese, meat, seafood, chocolate and a charcuterie, bakery and florist. Their proximity makes them a bigger magnet for the foodies they serve yet they leave some opportunity on the table.

Periodically they could co-create a situational sale – suggestions on what would go well together from each store for Valentine’s Day, a seasonal dinner party or Superbowl gathering.


In Denver a women’s clothing boutique is adjacent to a yoga studio which is adjacent to a store selling make-up, vitamins and home spa products. They are connected by internal doorways.

taichiclassA senior citizen center is located above a childcare center and next to a library facing a pocket park where the city parks and recreation department provides classes ranging from Tai Chi to dog obedience training.dog-cleaning-up-after-self-funny

Managers of all organizations plan shared activities for the people they serve. (Confession: this last one is one of my dream scenarios. In Denmark there are many multi-use community places that are busy all the time, where all ages can mix.)


Hint: How could you attract more customers by getting closer to complementary businesses? Could any of these options work for you?


Lease space within another establishment or agree on side-by-side sites. Examples: Noah’s Bagels is next to Starbucks Coffee. A restaurant or fast-food operation leases space within a hospital or motel (Pizza Hut in Days Inn). Popeye’s Chicken & Biscuits in a Kroger supermarket increases traffic for both guest and host companies.


The post office locates a substation in a supermarket. An accessories store leases space within or next to a clothing store and is joined by internal doors. A stadium leases space to a concession operator.



Give ‘Em Another Reason to Visit Your Business


That’s how Applebee’s attracted more customers – many first-time visitors – to their family restaurants one summer, without advertising more. When Weight Watchers designed several low-cal menu items for Applebee’s, followers of their diet program (and those who were thinking of losing weight) had a new reason to eat at Applebee’s. The restaurant’s customers got introduced to a new program – Weight Watchers, by a restaurant they already knew and liked.


Hint: How could your product be sold at another’s business as a way to introduce it to more people while enabling your partnering business to stand out from the competition? What if:


• A kitchen store periodically sold freshly-made appetizers from a partnering upscale deli that displayed those appetizers on plates from the kitchen store. Both display signage describing the dishes, the appetizers and both stores.


• A sports equipment store touted Saturday morning –in-store “Ask the Tennis Pro” time, partnering with a tennis teacher?

• A clothing store featured a series of evening briefings with a partnering make-up artist, a clothing color expert, dermatologist and nutritionist – each of whom promoted these events on their web sites and to their clients?

See other tasty ways that restaurants and other locally-owned food and other businesses can to attract and coddle customers while spending less at Joel Cohen’s Restaurant Marketing blog and Lorri Mealey’s Restauranting.


Then find more small business marketing ideas at Judy Dunn’s cat’s eye marketingJay Ehret’s The MarketingSpotSmall Business LabsSmall Business Survival, the Word of Mouth Marketing AssociationAnita Campbell’s Small Business Trends and Andy Sernovitz’s Damn! I Wish I’d Thought of That. See links at http://howwepartner.com/2010/02/tasty-ways-to-attract-more-customers/

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Create Profitable Peer-to-Peer Communities

Get on the good side of prospective customers. Be seen where they are in a good mood. They’re more likely to buy your product, research shows. It’s the Halo Effect of being associated with people, products or situations that make them happy.swapadog

peerMy friend, for example, gets excited about her upcoming vacation after she finds a fellow dog lover at peer-to-peer pet sitting service.

Your company could provide tips and a special offer to members on that site, along with other non-competing companies that serve dog owners.

Rather than advertising, you are demonstrating your expertise, offering tips and answering questions in the forum and chat rooms.

You are seen in the company of reputable non-profits.

That’s a credibility and visibility-building template that can be adapted to serve other niche markets, including yours perhaps.

freecycle_logoHow could people in your favorite niche market help each other if they had a place to swaphelp, no longer needed products or other resources or information? Online peer-to-peer communities are popping up all over to serve people in a specific situation, including college students, cyclists, and those with food allergies.


Be seen at an online community that serves of your kind of customers

couchsHere’s another example. To reach young, frugal and adventuresome travelers, Lonely Planet and Nike, Yelp and other companies might suggest that the peer-to-peer site CouchSurfing add a for-profit Gear Shop that sells their products at special prices for members. Yelp could propose a Helpful Links feature that includes them and other for –profit and not-for-profit services that cost-conscious travelers might like.

Become More Well-Known in Your Local Niche Market

Could your kind of customers benefit from a peer-to-peer site where they could trade services or products? If so, and one exists you could:


  • Pay for the right to make a special offer on the web site.

  • Suggest the site include a blog with tips from experts, including businesses such as yours.

  • Help the site owners attract new members by providing your product to:
  • Leverage Your Knowledge of  Your Niche to Create a New Business

    If such a peer community does not yet exist you could start one. Then you’d get to choose the non-profit services and the non-competing other reputable businesses to feature on your site. The costs of operating the site could be covered by the other businesses that pay to play. As the founder of this online community you can be seen as an industry expert for your key media to interview.

    For example, if you sell to local parents of young kids, you could launch a peer-to-peer baby-sitting community, an update of a baby-sitting coop. Partner with a web designer with social media expertise to create this new business. You have knowledge of the niche market and the designer knows how to build and maintain the site.

    Grow Your Web Design Business

    Alternatively, if you are a web designer, consider specializing in designing and maintaining online peer-to-peercommunities. You have two lucrative choices. You either:

    1. Design and own the site, recruiting local businesses to pay to play.

    2. Offer to design and maintain a site for a local business – thus creating a new profit center for that owner. Then that entrepreneur would recruit non-competing business to participate.

    Either way you provide your clients with the peace of mind that comes from your maintaining the site.

    And your peer-to-peer community expertise enables you to stand out from other web designers. Plus you’ll get recurring revenue for the maintenance and community manager role you play.

    Next, take our template to serve the same niche elsewhere. Since many of these online communities serve a local market – say parents of young children in one city – you could cookie-cutter your community and offer the same niche-serving template to small business owners in other towns.

    See links at http://howwepartner.com/2009/12/create-profitable-peer-to-peer-communities/

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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Want Them to Remember and Repeat Your Story?

Bagpipegrass As a bagpiper, I play at gatherings as varied as weddings and resorts at sunset. This winter a friend of mine, a funeral director asked me to play at a graveside service for a homeless man. No friend or family members could be found. My friend and a minister had kindly offered to provide a simple service at a pauper's cemetery in rural Kentucky.

They asked me to play. Yet I was not familiar with the backwoods. Driving out to the service I got lost and harried, looking for signs. I finally arrived an hour late. The minister had already left it.


Only the backhoe and the gravediggers remained. They were quietly eating lunch.  I felt badly and apologized to them for my tardiness. Yet I was resolved to honor this man in his death, thinking of the many forgotten people like him who had no one to acknowledge their life at the end.


I got out my bagpipes, walked to the side of the fresh grave and looked down.  The vault lid was already in place.


I paused, looked up at the sky, then held up my bagpipes and began to play.


After a few minutes of playing I glanced over and noticed that the workers had put down their lunches and were listening. Suddenly I felt the numinosity of this moment, a connection will this man and all those who are alone in their passing, so I played with all my heart.


Two songs later I started Amazing Grace, letting myself scan the countryside. That’s when I saw the diggers were quietly weeping. Soon, so was I. When I finished, I quietly packed up my bagpipes and started walking back to my car, feeling much more at peace with the world.


As I opened my car door I heard one of the workers exclaim, "Sweet Mother of Jesus, I never seen nothin' like that before... and I've been putting in septic tanks for twenty-two years."Who-Will-Cry-When-You-Die


~ I adapted this from an oft-repeated, apparently anonymous story, shared with me by three subscribers to this blog.


Lesson: Tell a story with a poignant (or other emotion), unexpected twist at the end and it may stick in others’ minds so much that they can’t help sharing it with others.


See the Power of Surprise in Stories of Varying Lengths


JonStewart 1. Some stories with a twist at the end are told in a couple of sentences, sometimes evoking a humorous twist, as when Jon Stewart said, “I celebrated Thanksgiving in an old-fashioned way. I invited everyone in my neighborhood to my house, we had an enormous feast, and then I killed them and took their land.”


2. Others are longer vignettes like the Bagpiper.


3. Some dip us into another world, in books like Blue Zone, short stories such as O. Henry's, especially his Cabbages and Kings and gripping movies such as Body Double, Body Heat, The Sixth Senseand (my favorite) The Usual Suspects.TheUsualSuspects


Regardless of the length we loved to be surprisedand to share that experience.


Craft Your Repeatable Story to Live a Bigger, More Adventuresome Life in 2011


What phrase, vignette or story could you tell, with an authentic and surprising twist at the end to underpin your description of those you admire, the cause you back, or your profession or product or service you sell?


Make Yourself Memorable


Want to make your story or description so compelling it helps you get what you want in your work or life? By phone, let me help you craft that captivating message. See what others have accomplished in just one hour of coaching. Or consider bringing me to speak at your meeting.


If you found this post helpful you may also be interested in these:


• Become More Frequently-Quoted


• Clever, Kind and Connected (What's your slogan?)


• The Most Vivid Labelers’ Influence


• The Gift That Taught Me How to Design


http://www.fastcodesign.com/1663156/the-gift-that-taught-me-how-to-design?par...


See rest of links to this post here http://sayitbetter.typepad.com/say_it_better/2010/01/want-them-to-remember-and-repeat-your-story-1.html

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Four Ways We Can Make Smarter Choices

“Life is the sum of all your choices,” wrote Albert Camus. Unfortunately, just as we misjudge howhappy we will be in the future, we misjudge how our fear of immediate loss hampers our future options. In this game recognize how that happens and make smarter choices:

Participants get $20 to place $1 bets on 20 tosses of a coin. Each losing bet costs $1.  Each winning bet earns $2.50. Given the payout and the 50/50 chance of winning the smart behavior is to bet every time.

Yet most participants passed up several chances to place a bet. Why? Because fear mounts with each coin toss, making people less and less likely to take the gamble and potentially lose what they already have.

Hint: Those who can blunt their fear of loss, to rationally think of their options, win more. That’s easier to do when not multitasking or feeling distracted or rushed.

Three other ways we sabotage decisionmaking and how we can do better


  1. How Valuable Does it Appear to Me?
  2. When people bought an energy drink at a discount, they actually performed worse on a puzzle-solving task than those who had paid full price for it. Why? Our unconscious belief equates low price with low quality.

    Also when blind tasting wines, people most enjoy the ones they are told cost more.

    “That suggests, for example, that drugs bought at a discount, such as drugs from Canada or generic versions of brand-name medications, might be less effective even when they’re otherwise identical,” observes Shiv.

    Hint: Charging a premium price for your product or service – and branding it as “deluxe,” “full-service” or other upscale characterization may increase buyer’s:

    • Happiness with what they bought.

    • Motivation to share their choice with others.

    Also, context and habit trigger perceived value. Those moviegoers who usually eat popcorn while watching, for example, areless likely to notice its quality. Since much of our everyday activities are habitual, we can see why it is difficult to change, especially when we are distracted or rushed. Relatedly sampling in context influences behavior, including buying as I discovered in my Bon Bon Bombshell experiment.

    Hint: Slow down to act smarter

    1. Leave Room in Your Brain to Make the Smart Choice

    Recognizing that emotional impulse can tempt us to pick that juicy-looking bacon hamburger over the salad, here’s Baba Shiva’s way to make the better choice. Participants, in his study, who are asked to memorize a seven-digit number were much more likely to choose chocolate cake over fruit salad than those who’d been asked to memorize only a one-digit number.

    Hint: Those who had more brainpower left (less to remember) were better able to think about making the healthy choice.

    3. Recover From Rejection

    Did you get dumped? (We all have at some time). Compounding the pain, not only do we want something more when it appears to be scarce, we are more motivated to pursue the person or object we’ve lost.

    Recognizing this tendency may enable you to blunt the effect of it.  Plus we can be tempted to increase someone’s appreciation for us by not being readily available.

    Here are more resources that have helped me be a smarter decider …. sometimes:

    • How Groups Can Make Better Choices

    • How to Nudge Others to Act “Right

    • How We Sometimes Fool Ourselves When Making Decisions then read about what Zachary Shore describes as seven cognitive traps in Blunder.  They include static cling (an inability to accept change), causefusion (confusing the causes of complex events) and flatview (black and white thinking).

    • Shiva’s friend, Dan Areily describes other ways to make smarter choices in Predictably Irrational.

    For extreme examples of warped reactions read Shankar Vedantam’s story on how the heat of passion deeply alters behavior no matter how smart, rational or well-trained we are.

    See links for this post at http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/2010/03/03/four-ways-we-can-make-smarter-choices/

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